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27 May 2009 @ 08:14 pm
 Hi Guys!

The long awaited Songs of Solomon churchwide BS is finally here!
This is a 5 weeks series and it will be conducted by our very own... PASTOR KONG!!
Do note that there is a change in timing! 
Refer to below for more details!



Come excited and be ready to receive!!
See you there!

loves, meng
 
 
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24 May 2009 @ 02:02 pm
Huiqin and I were desperate for a venue for our photoshoot as we were both too busy to get into serious planning. On the day where we met our photographer, we had to tell him where and we just gave raffles marina as the 2nd venue. After that night, Huiqin dropped RM an e-mail and it states that we had to pay about SGD 200 plus as we are booking it quite last minute.

Both of us are very tight now as we had just completed BF. SGD 200 plus is indeed a lot for us. Then, I remembered I had met a friend when I was in Malaysia about 1 yr ago. I dropped him a sms and he had his contacts. In the end, he got the manager of RM to call me and the total amount I needed to pay was 0 dollars.

Thank God for this saving and truly God is good. Savings here and there goes a long long way...

- Kenneth
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04 April 2009 @ 01:24 am
Hi Guys!

Easter service is next week and it's title is - "The Final Solution - A New Messiah?"
Do invite all your friends down!!
What's more? Our very own Mr Timothy Wan is in this drama production!! =D

Service timings as follows. 

10 April 2009 (Friday)
1.00pm - 3.00pm (JW)
3.30pm - 5.30pm (JW)

5.30pm - 7.30pm (Expo)
8.00pm - 10pm (Expo)


11 April 2009 (Sat)
3.30pm - 5.30pm (JW)

5.30pm - 7.30pm (Expo)
8.00pm - 10.00pm (Expo)

12 April 2009 (Sun)
10.00am - 12.00pm (Expo)
12.30pm - 2.30pm (Expo)


loves, meng
 
 
01 April 2009 @ 01:14 am
 
21/03/09 – ROMANCE AND RELATIONSHIP CONFERENCE

Hi all, if you have been wondering what went on during the Romance & Relationship conference, wonder no more! Here is what Pastor Tan and Pastor Kong taught us during the six-hour conference.

Hope you will find this useful, especially if you are looking to get attached soon. ☺

Pastor Tan started by saying that, in looking for a partner and being someone else’s partner, we should prepare oursleves to be a husband/father and a mother/wife.

Like how Christ is God to man, a man should be like Christ to his wife. Therefore, what are the qualities men should have in them?

1) Lover
Tenderness goes hand in hand with romance.

2) Giver
Be self-giving, sacrificial.

3) Teacher
When the time comes, the husband will have to teach the bible to his children. How to train in advance? Give bible study, etc.

4) Intercessor
Be an intercessor for the family.

5) Priest

Proclaim blessings upon the family and children.

Pastor Tan also mentioned that men should have headship. What are the three functions of headship?

1) Receive input

2) Make decisions

3) Give directions


He should be open to communication with every member of the family, be responsible and faithful. He should be trained, equipped and refined in character. 
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The same qualities that make a woman pleasing to the Lord will make her pleasing to her mate.

1) Helper
Need to be flexible and prepared in every way. Create a loving and peaceful atmosphere in your home and your husband will be a successful man.

2) Cultivate commitment and loyalty

3) Cultivate a healthy self-esteem
The devil will always try to accuse you and bring you down and because women are weaker in this area, we should be on guard.

4) Cultivate a lifestyle of learning

E.g. nutrition, cooking, sewing. Don’t just be content to be cooped up at home all day.

5) Learn to serve – be willing

Anticipate what your husband needs. Serve in a ministry, be prepared.

6) Be flexible

Esp. in supporting your husband

7) Learn to pray
Intercede for the family as well.

8) Take proper care of your body

Keep healthy, keep fit. Be able to play and catch up with your children in their growing up years.

9) Observe exemplary marriages

10) Trust God. Be willing to wait.

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Pastor Tan also talked about five compatibility time bombs, which could possibly damage a relationship.

1) Significant age difference

E.g. he’s 20 and she is 50, or he is 60 and she is 25.

2) Different spiritual conviction

Can also refer to a couple who are Christians and attending the same church.

3) Different social, ethnic, education background

4) Overbearing in-laws

5) Long distance relationships

Especially those in which both parties have not met each other.

The 1-minute compatibility test:

1) Would I want a child with this person?

2) Would I want my son/daughter to be like his/her dad/mum?

3) Do I want to be more like my husband/wife?

4) Would I be happy to spend the rest of my life with him/her if he/she never changes from today?


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Pastor Kong chaired the next half of the conference and he talked about what we should look for in a partner:

7 characterisitcs to look for in a mate
:

1) Behaviour in stressful conditions


2) Reputation

Does not mean that other party has to be someone well know or famous. Does he/she have a good attitude? Is he/she notorious?

3) Obedience to authority

4) Does not compromise in spiritual values

5) Someone who respects you

6) Not ashamed of relationship

7) Ability for restraint


Pastor mentioned that a good age to get married would be between 22 – 25 years. Why?

1) Longer time to get to know each other

2) More time for God to mould as a couple

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In conclusion, Pastor Kong went through the five needs of men and women:

Women

1) Affection

2) Conversation

3) Honesty/Openness

4) Financial support

5) Family commitment


Men


1) Sexual fulfillment

2) Recreational companionship

3) Attractive spouse

4) Domestic support

5) Admiration

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Let's be on our way to building great and lasting marriages!


- Tammy

 
 
 
25 December 2008 @ 12:00 am
Hi GUYS!

It has been confirmed!!!!!

Candlelight Services:

20/12 - 3.30pm (JW), 5.30pm (Expo)

21/12 - 10am (Expo), 12.30pm (JW)



Christmas service timings as follows:

24/12 - 3.30pm (JW), 5.30pm* (JW), 7.45pm*(Expo)

25/12 - 10am* (Expo), 12.30pm* (Expo), 3.30pm (JW)


* with chinese interpretation

Do start inviting your friends!!! =D

<3, Meng
 
 
16 November 2008 @ 09:32 pm
ASIA CONFERENCE 2008



//Updated.

Hi guys!

Here is the schedule for the Asia Conference.
Please check it and let me noe if you need to make any changes, ie if you are coming or not coming, sitting with us or serving.
It will be easier so that we know how many seats to book! :B


This is the one for sessions 1 - 10.

Asia Conference_sessions
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This is for electives.

Asia Conference_electives
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Again, please check against it.
You See if anyone is attending the same elective as you.. so that you can go tgt! (:
Okay! Since you have already receive the piece of paper during service, you all should know the meaning to the codes to the electives. You can bring along the piece of paper for easy reference.


Things to bring:

1) YOUR AC TAG (No tags, cannot go for electives hor!)
2) Water
3) Bible, notebook, pen
4) The timetable paper (for easy reference)
5) Handphone (Make sure its fully charged! You wun want your phone to die on you!)
6) Money (To buy food and other things lah =D ) 
7) EZ Link Card (To travel, of cos!)
8) Sweets, candies
9) Other misc stuff 


Yeah! So are you all excited already!
I can already feel the excitement!!!
Lets come ready to receieve okay!
See you there! 
Oh yes. Please dun be late cos there will not be any reservation of seats.
IF you are gg to be late, please let the people know early lah, okay?


PS>> I will be sending out the schedule to your email. You can print it out for reference too.

See you pple!!!!


Loves, Lai Meng

 
 
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06 November 2008 @ 10:20 am


    THE SCARS OF LIFE

Love is when God became man.'


 

Some years ago, on a hot summer day in south Florida, a little boy decided to go for a swim in the old swimming hole behind his house. In a hurry to dive into the cool water, he ran out the back door, leaving behind shoes, socks, and shirt as he went. He flew into the water, not realizing that as he swam toward the middle of the lake, an alligator was swimming toward the shore.

His father, working in the yard, saw the two as they got closer and closer together. In utter fear, he ran toward the water, yelling to his son as loudly as he could.

Hearing his voice, the little boy became alarmed and made a U-turn to swim to his father. It was too late. Just as he reached his father, the e alligator reached him.

From the dock, the father grabbed his little boy by the arms just as the alligator snatched his legs. That began an incredible tug-of-war between the two. The alligator was much stronger than the father, but the father was much too passionate to let go.

A farmer happened to drive by, heard his screams, raced from his truck, took aim and shot the alligator..

Remarkably, after weeks and weeks in the hospital, the little boy survived His legs were extremely scarred by the vicious attack of the animal. And, on his arms, were deep scratches where his father's fingernails dug into his flesh in his effort to hang on to the son he loved.

The newspaper reporter who interviewed the boy after the trauma, asked if he would show him his scars. The boy lifted his pant legs. And then, with obvious pride, he said to the reporter, 'But look at my arms. I have great scars on my arms, too. I have them because my Dad wouldn't let go.'

You and I can identify with that little boy. We have scars, too. No, not from an alligator, but the scars of a painful past. Some of those scars are unsightly and have caused us deep regret. But some wounds, my friend, are because God has refused to let you go. In the midst of your struggle, He's been there holding on to you.

The Scripture teaches that God loves you. You are a child of God. He wants to protect you and provide for you in every way. But sometimes we foolishly wade into dangerous situations, not knowing what lies ahead. The swimming hole of life is filled with peril - and we forget that the enemy is waiting to attack. That's when the tug-of-war begins - and if you have the scars of His love on your arms, be very, very grateful. He did not and will not ever let you go.

Please pass this on to those you love. God has blessed you, so that you can be a blessing to others. You just never know where a person is in his/her life and what they are going

through. Never judge another person's scars, because you don't know how they got them. Also, it is so important that we are not selfish, to receive the blessings of these messages, without forwarding them to someone else...

Right now, someone needs to know that God loves them, and you love them, too - enough to not let them go

 

 

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